When the sun comes down
When the rain wash away
All the hopes I can bring
To another day, another day

When your trees start to sway
And the wind makes them move

I can tell that
You don't know

you all know: i'm blunt.
that is an advantage and a disadvantage of me. i will shoot everything straight at you with honest words from within. you may get offended. however, if only you would just think about what i had said, you will realise that it's true. although sometimes i say the wrong things, but words from anyone matters. just reflect upon them and try to get the message out of them, be it if they are by accident or on purpose.

accept any criticism from anyone, and thank the person, no matter if you like him/her or not. whatever people say or tell you, take them in and think, reflect. you will somehow understand more about the person, or even yourself more. you will never know what is happening to yourself without the help of another person.
TIP: never take criticism as a bad thing. be like William Hung (for this); accept criticism with gratitude. they may and will make you a better person, you will never know.

nobody is perfect, remember this.

i know my circle.
i differentiate family, friends, and strangers. i will always love my family no matter what happens. my family, is my family for life. i cannot be seperated from them. even if i found another loving family, they are not of my real blood. i express my love in various ways. from actions, to words, and to mental expressions.
i will love my friends no matter what happens, as well. i will not love you, not even like you, only if you did something really wrong to hurt me and everyone around. i express love in two ways; physically and verbally, as we are, in fact, only friends. i treat best/close friends differently from how i do to friends. things are obvious to whether you're my goodie-good friend or not.
im specially very blunt towards my real friends. i tell them their bad points straight in the face, and request them to reflect and change. i'd give them their comments on me as well, so that i can change in anyway to compromise. all that i do are for our friendship, and there was never once i thought of making our relationship turn sour. im trying to make it stronger. being frank with each other will enable us to know one another better and our trust may also be more stable. things may go abit awkward during the thrashings. however, everything will go well if all of us are thinking with the same mindset: these are words of comments on how i can change myself, or to change my friends to make our bonds stronger. it all may be hurting in the beginning, but as people say; no pain, no gain.
whenever i confide in someone, that shows that my trust for you is there. so dont disappoint me by spreading it around when i told you not to. if you are not sure if you are supposed to expose it, ask. im not the kind of person who will tell someone "trust me, you can trust me. im a trustworthy person." no. it all depends on you whether you want to trust me or not. however, i can tell you, nothing will slip out of my mouth when you tell me to seal it.
TIP: love your family. cherish your friends. make every effort to strengthen (all) your relationships. do not do them at the last minute when it's out of hands.

i dont like people who betray.
i wont be angry. i would be disappointed to have confided in such a friend person, very disappointed in you, and myself. plus, you will lose my trust after that.
TIP: be trustworthy, be someone whom people will trust, rely and be comfortable with.

i dont hate.
when you hate, it means that you are envious and jealous of the person. when you start hating the person, for all you know, you will slowly start to act, talk, walk, become like that person.
TIP: dont hate. once you hate, your life is hell.

EVERYTHING IS MIND OVER MATTER.
you control yourself, not others. you control your own emotions, not others. you control your own destiny, not others. if you are someone who is sad because your friend is sad, sad to say, you are mindless; you dont have a strong mind, strong enough to tell yourself to be happy. you can sit by your friend and cry by his/her side, but do not feel depressed about it. comfort your friend with a positive mind and encourage him/her. by going along with the flow, you are not making the situation any better. it is best for you to advise and encourage your friend to become a stronger and better person.
in another words, DONT be like Singapore, so vulnerable to external events :)
TIP: look into the mirror every morning during your wash-up. smile to yourself and tell yourself, "today's a beautiful day. im going to be happy." it works. the truth is, the moment you smile to yourself in the mirror, you are already making yourself happy. start your day off with a smile! :D


Author's note:
i had alot of inspiration after today's 4-division meeting. i hope these words helped you. try them out, because they really work. well, for me they do. if you know me, you should know im quite a cheerful and bubbly girl. lead a nice life like mine and maybe, somehow, just try out these useful actions in life :) these words are written from my point of view. to those people who think differently, that's your own problem. if you dont understand, it is destined that you dont. i dont need comments on this post. thank you very much.
read for pleasure.

i may come out with more as time passes.

Night, all.